Great novels were written about them, movies were inspired by them. Call them anything you want — Don Juans, Casanovas, or gigolos — they preyed on unsuspecting women to get them into the bedroom. But do they still exist?
But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desires and most embarrassing questions? Bustle has enlisted Vanessa Marin, a sex therapistto help us out with the details. No gender, sexual orientation, or question is off limits, and all questions remain anonymous.
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Seduction is the process of deliberately enticing a person, to engage in a relationship, to lead astray, as from duty, rectitude, or the like; to corruptto persuade or induce into engaging in sexual behaviour. Strategies of seduction include conversation and sexual scripts,  paralingual features,  non-verbal communication  and short-term behavioural strategies. Famous seducers from history or legend include LilithGiacomo Casanovaand the fictional character Don Juan.
Ah seduction, that noble art. Its roots can be found in the most ancient myths; the alleged nobility is more recent, perhaps originating from mediaeval courtly love, when the beguiling of an innocent virgin or, if you were really good, a rival's wife could be accomplished with flattery, favours and a joust or two. But baser motives have never been far below the surface, and, ultimately, the methods that work are the basic ones: get them to notice you in the crowd, make them feel special, win their trust, make their pupils dilate, get them into bed.
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If you want to seduce a man, confidence is key. Gain his interest by being yourself, set the scene, and then slowly move into physical contact. There is such a thing as the art of seduction, and no one becomes a great artist overnight.